Here are some things you and your partner should discuss before moving in together.
1. **Chore Division**
– [ ] Discuss who handles which chores.– [ ] Set timelines and frequencies for each task.
2. **Organization**
– [ ] Address organizational habits.– [ ] Decide on how to manage any differences in organization.
3. **Financial Planning**
– [ ] Determine how you’ll manage personal finances.– [ ] Decide on bill management and joint or separate accounts.
– [ ] Establish a plan for emergencies and savings goals.
4. **End-of-Day Needs**
– [ ] Discuss how each of you needs to decompress at the end of the workday.– [ ] Find a balance that accommodates both partners’ preferences.
5. **Coping with Difficult Times**
– [ ] Understand how each of you prefers to cope with challenging situations.– [ ] Ensure you are aligned in providing support and comfort.
6. **Employment and Job Loss**
– [ ] Discuss what happens if one partner loses their job.– [ ] Create a plan for getting back on track and supporting each other during unemployment.
7. **Affection and Love**
– [ ] Reflect on how you both show love and affection in everyday life.– [ ] Recognize the importance of these small gestures.
8. **Emotional Expression**
– [ ] Understand each other’s ways of expressing emotions.– [ ] Commit to open communication to avoid misunderstandings.
9. **Receptiveness to Feedback**
– [ ] Promise to be receptive and non-defensive when receiving feedback.– [ ] Explore feedback together and consider necessary changes.
10. **Personal Growth**
– [ ] Encourage each other to deal with personal issues.– [ ] Commit to self-reflection, seeking help, and taking accountability when needed.
By discussing and addressing these topics before moving in together, you can better prepare for a harmonious and successful shared life. Review this checklist with your partner to ensure that you both have a clear understanding and agreement on these important aspects of cohabitation.
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